Singaporeans are the  unhappiest people on earth. True? Maybe, maybe not. Singaporeans are  amongst the wealthiest humans living on our planet. True? Absolutely.
Measured by per capita  income, Panama, the happiest country on the planet, is the 90th  wealthiest country in the world. Using the same measure of wealth, Singapore  ranks at number five. 
Singaporeans lead 'First World' lives. Singaporeans travel the world, waste food, contribute to global warming, worry about things like the welfare of animals and indulge in all sorts of other behavior only available to people with lots of money.
Singaporeans lead 'First World' lives. Singaporeans travel the world, waste food, contribute to global warming, worry about things like the welfare of animals and indulge in all sorts of other behavior only available to people with lots of money.
And yet Singaporeans  are unhappy. 
Few will argue humans should live in abject poverty to pursue happiness.  However, it does not necessarily follow that greater prosperity equals greater happiness.  
But the bottom line is Singaporeans are wealthy. So why are the  super wealthy residents of this super-efficient city-state so unhappy with  life? It doesn't make any sense. Or does it?
At this point, I will step into some murky waters. Many of my  comments below are based on anecdotal evidence and personal observations during  my (almost) fifteen years of life on the  Little Red Dot. (Hey, it's my blog and I am entitled to opinions.)
Let's talk about hobbies.  
Wikipedia, the source of all modern knowledge, defines hobby as "a  regular activity or interest that is undertaken for pleasure, typically done  during one's leisure time. Examples of hobbies include collecting,  creative and artistic pursuits, making, tinkering, sports and adult  education."
Leisure time – what's that? Does the  concept exist in our super efficient 'kiasu' society? (We all know  what 'kiasu' means, right?)
Singaporeans have little  or no spare time. Or at least make little or no free time ('me time') from  their otherwise busy lives. It's simply not possible to have any interests  outside of work unless one has time. 
Time requires the semblance of a 'work-life'  balance. Such a balance requires Singaporeans to demonstrate strength of  character. 
Character – huh? What does an individual's character have to do with 'work-life' balance? Well, as long as we chase the current equivalent of the 'Five C's' as the Holy Grail of existence there will be no balance in our lives. If our self-worth depends upon owning the latest electronic gadget, Louis Vitton handbag or other material possession then having to run faster and faster on the treadmill is inevitable. Splurging beyond one's means on big ticket items like cars and condominiums mean debt related stress permeating our entire life – and keeping us unhappy?
Character – huh? What does an individual's character have to do with 'work-life' balance? Well, as long as we chase the current equivalent of the 'Five C's' as the Holy Grail of existence there will be no balance in our lives. If our self-worth depends upon owning the latest electronic gadget, Louis Vitton handbag or other material possession then having to run faster and faster on the treadmill is inevitable. Splurging beyond one's means on big ticket items like cars and condominiums mean debt related stress permeating our entire life – and keeping us unhappy?
Make some time and get a hobby. Do something  other than chase the dollar. 
A hobby does not have to be  expensive. It can be as simple as reading (borrow books from Singapore's great  library system). Or spend some quiet  moments in a green space every so often. 
Surely, the  pursuit of wealth is a legitimate life goal. Yet, becoming obsessive about materialism  and allowing social pressures to dictate our wants is often a sure path to misery.  Instead, it might be helpful to ask ourselves, 'How much money is required for me to be happy? Will the new phone [handbag,  car, condo, etc.] bring me happiness?'
Reaching peace with our desires is  one way to achieve happiness. Buddha  figured that maxim out many centuries ago. 
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Imran is a business and  management consultant. Through his work at Deodar Advisors and the Deodar Diagnostic, Imran improves  profits of businesses operating in Singapore and the region. He can be reached  at imran@deodaradvisors.com. 











